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applegrove

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Wed Feb 22, 2023, 06:06 PM Feb 2023

Most young men are single. Most young women are not. [View all]

Most young men are single. Most young women are not.

BY DANIEL DE VISÉ - 02/22/23 6:00 AM ET

https://thehill.com/blogs/blog-briefing-room/3868557-most-young-men-are-single-most-young-women-are-not/

"SNIP.....

More than 60 percent of young men are single, nearly twice the rate of unattached young women, signaling a larger breakdown in the social, romantic and sexual life of the American male.

Men in their 20s are more likely than women in their 20s to be romantically uninvolved, sexually dormant, friendless and lonely. They stand at the vanguard of an epidemic of declining marriage, sexuality and relationships that afflicts all of young America.

“We’re in a crisis of connection,” said Niobe Way, a psychology professor and founder of the Project for the Advancement of Our Common Humanity at New York University. “Disconnection from ourselves and disconnection from each other. And it’s getting worse.”

In the worst-case scenario, the young American man’s social disconnect can have tragic consequences. Young men commit suicide at four times the rate of young women. Younger men are largely responsible for rising rates of mass shootings, a trend some researchers link to their growing social isolation.

.......SNIP"

Applegrove:

One explanation for why the GOP men are in a frenzy to end all abortions, as women may be more likely to have an abortion if the men are more patriarchal and less educated, their next genration of assholes will be smaller in number. That will make for fewer GOP voters.

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Not so long ago the single guys I knew changed their fate chowder66 Feb 2023 #1
Wait. How did this supply imbalance occur? LonePirate Feb 2023 #2
Lebians are a fast growing group. Women marry older men. applegrove Feb 2023 #4
Except lesbians do not account for that 30 point difference. LonePirate Feb 2023 #5
This message was self-deleted by its author applegrove Feb 2023 #10
No, their partners would come from within that 3.5%, not a separate 3.5%. LonePirate Feb 2023 #13
You are right. applegrove Feb 2023 #16
It does sound off Effete Snob Feb 2023 #15
Presumably the number of gay men and lesbian women balance themselves out. meadowlander Feb 2023 #20
Women are potentially more likely to identify themselves as in a relationship meadowlander Feb 2023 #12
Yes, that could explain it well treestar Feb 2023 #98
You're right. The data claim in this article is suspect. SYFROYH Feb 2023 #17
Women in their 20s tend to date and have relationships with older men. Yavin4 Feb 2023 #37
Soon enough those 20 year old men will be 30 chasing after 20 something girls who boston bean Feb 2023 #42
Something like that but those women once they age out of their 20s Yavin4 Feb 2023 #44
It comes from this Pew survey here muriel_volestrangler Feb 2023 #51
The 104 boy births to 100 girl births is old science. The article applegrove Feb 2023 #53
This would require young women to be in almost as many relationships with older men as young men. LonePirate Feb 2023 #55
Maybe gay men marry later than lesbian women? applegrove Feb 2023 #56
Probably because younger women are considered by many to be the hottest catch Polybius Feb 2023 #112
Yet women are the majority of the population. maxsolomon Feb 2023 #3
In a relationship with other women Stuckinthebush Feb 2023 #6
Men also die less in war these days. Lesbians are growing in number. applegrove Feb 2023 #8
Lebians! BlackSkimmer Feb 2023 #11
Migrating from Lebanon, no doubt. JustABozoOnThisBus Feb 2023 #24
Stop!!! BlackSkimmer Feb 2023 #25
Good thing I didn't start in on the thespians. They're always acting up. nt JustABozoOnThisBus Feb 2023 #29
Snerk. BlackSkimmer Feb 2023 #32
I guess I am a Lebian now (lesbian plus I have a wee bit of Lebanese from mummy's Bajan side) Celerity Feb 2023 #69
LOL! applegrove Feb 2023 #105
Plebeian lesbians, I think. milestogo Feb 2023 #38
Love this place! BlackSkimmer Feb 2023 #39
No, it's the dreaded Lebian Majorans! hatrack Feb 2023 #54
Seriously -- wtf does that even mean obamanut2012 Feb 2023 #99
We will solve this problem very soon. roamer65 Feb 2023 #21
A "glut of males" and "Lebians" growing! BlackSkimmer Feb 2023 #26
Will you stop misspelling lesbians? obamanut2012 Feb 2023 #97
Age group Effete Snob Feb 2023 #18
Don't forget "past their prime" now. BlackSkimmer Feb 2023 #27
You have to read all of the words. Mariana Feb 2023 #19
Those excess 30 women are in relationships with older men Yavin4 Feb 2023 #45
Interesting gay texan Feb 2023 #7
Living at home with your parents and not working ? MichMan Feb 2023 #9
The way many MuseRider Feb 2023 #14
Not a good trend if you look at history DetroitLegalBeagle Feb 2023 #22
The China Syndrome? roamer65 Feb 2023 #23
There was an few articles years ago that read where I first heard about this theory DetroitLegalBeagle Feb 2023 #28
It's true. roamer65 Feb 2023 #41
Indeed. nt Duppers Feb 2023 #85
Gunner Heinsohn LudwigPastorius Feb 2023 #78
Before I transitioned vercetti2021 Feb 2023 #30
+100 applegrove Feb 2023 #31
It's fantastic that transitioning has helped you to learn that self confidence. BlackSkimmer Feb 2023 #33
Yeah isn't it beautiful? vercetti2021 Feb 2023 #34
Lol, I wish I could agree with you! BlackSkimmer Feb 2023 #35
The larger issue here is that our culture does a really poor job of socializing our young men. Yavin4 Feb 2023 #36
Growing up in the 70's, getting a license at 16 & buying a junky car was a rite of passage. MichMan Feb 2023 #66
Kids are raised much, much differently today. Yavin4 Feb 2023 #70
People needed cars just as much 30 years ago and teenagers all wanted one when they turned 16 MichMan Feb 2023 #106
This video explains my position Yavin4 Feb 2023 #107
Yes. Texaswitchy Feb 2023 #110
My last summer home from college was when I was 20. roamer65 Feb 2023 #84
I was 19. Texaswitchy Feb 2023 #111
Yes. Texaswitchy Feb 2023 #40
This.... MichMan Feb 2023 #67
In fairness, it's probably less a maturity than a cost of housing issue these days. meadowlander Feb 2023 #73
I lived in a two bedroom garage apartment with three other women in Austin. Texaswitchy Feb 2023 #75
I know Texaswitchy Feb 2023 #74
Assuming nearly equal amounts of males and females, the math doesn't work out Fiendish Thingy Feb 2023 #43
See my post below. Yavin4 Feb 2023 #47
wtaf: "they will go for men who are economically established enough to be the primary/sole provider" obamanut2012 Feb 2023 #101
Also, this is a by-product of modern day capitalism. Yavin4 Feb 2023 #46
Also gaming. applegrove Feb 2023 #48
Nope. Yavin4 Feb 2023 #49
You have to agree that gaming increases the survival rate of adrenaline crazy young applegrove Feb 2023 #50
Again. Nope. Yavin4 Feb 2023 #52
I would not go out with many gamers. usedtobedemgurl Feb 2023 #109
I'm a gamer vercetti2021 Feb 2023 #57
I knew a woman who had a great boyfriend. He didn't want children applegrove Feb 2023 #59
Gaming can be addicting if they let it vercetti2021 Feb 2023 #60
It's the opposite. betsuni Feb 2023 #64
The jobs available to them in their 20s don't pay enough for them to provide for a family. Yavin4 Feb 2023 #71
That is why we had roommates. Texaswitchy Feb 2023 #76
For many of these young men in our dying empire, it will be never. roamer65 Feb 2023 #77
There are union apprenticeship programs. Texaswitchy Feb 2023 #79
Yes, but not all will have the aptitude needed nor motivation required. roamer65 Feb 2023 #81
A lot make it. Texaswitchy Feb 2023 #82
+1000 roamer65 Feb 2023 #83
We have onsite daycare . Texaswitchy Feb 2023 #86
Why enable the stupid and lazy? MichMan Feb 2023 #113
It is the same in teh US, too obamanut2012 Feb 2023 #102
Plenty of opportunities for people who aren't interested in college to start a career in the trades MichMan Feb 2023 #68
" man who is in a position to provide for a family." women can do that just as well as men do now uponit7771 Feb 2023 #94
An unexpected child is a good way to lock a woman into a shitty relationship NickB79 Feb 2023 #58
My mom was a single mother vercetti2021 Feb 2023 #61
My mom stuck it out for almost 20 years NickB79 Feb 2023 #62
I'm so sorry vercetti2021 Feb 2023 #63
Wait it out, young dudes. Wingus Dingus Feb 2023 #65
This is good for Planet Earth. roamer65 Feb 2023 #72
A lot of older women have no desire to marry/remarry GenThePerservering Feb 2023 #80
Great post obamanut2012 Feb 2023 #104
I never had a desire to be married. Texaswitchy Feb 2023 #114
Do you really think they are smart enough to connect the dots to this point? soldierant Feb 2023 #87
Oh as always it is the powers that be in the GOP in either faction that connect the dots then applegrove Feb 2023 #88
Oh, yes. soldierant Feb 2023 #89
I am single, I have been single for a long time, and I have not gone on a date in years ck4829 Feb 2023 #90
But ... excuse me for being nosy, but why was money a problem with your ex? betsuni Feb 2023 #91
+1 uponit7771 Feb 2023 #96
This doesn't make sense unless women report they are in a relationship with men Scrivener7 Feb 2023 #92
OR the women are dating older guys. OR the guys who are dating are dogging around Bucky Feb 2023 #93
It's 30 percent, though. With that number, intuitively your second possibility makes more sense. Scrivener7 Feb 2023 #100
wouldn't that have always been the case? treestar Feb 2023 #95
" [women] .. don't need to be married." Is a ***HUGE*** chunk of this. Happened in East Germany uponit7771 Feb 2023 #103
This video provides an explanation of this phenomenon Yavin4 Feb 2023 #108
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